Why is it we are so hung up on understanding/ being right? If someone does something we don't understand, we seem to automatically assume it is wrong. We look for technicalities, quotes, definitions, whatever to prove our point even though so many things don't affect us in the slightest.
What made me think of this?
http://tinyurl.com/yca9phqMan oh man, the quotes from those comments.
Main Entry: male
Pronunciation: \ˈmāl\
1 a : a male person : a man or a boy b : an individual that produces small usually motile gametes (as spermatozoa or spermatozoids) which fertilize the eggs of a female.
(taken from merriam-webster online)
If you don't got that, sorry your NOT a male and NEVER will be!!! live how God made you!
It is not your place to interpret God, dumbass. Who the hell are you to be so vain, so damn arrogant? Besides, your God is very clearly different than mine or Chaz's, so shut the f**k up. I don't want to be under your lord's foot if he so much of a dick to make people that are uncomfortable in their own bodies and then judge them for it.
Also, dipshit, what do you make of infertile men? Castrated men? Cross gender men? Do you see how the line is much too vague to make these kind of judgments?
"Gender is something between your ears, not between your legs" Gender is and always has been the XY or XX or the rarer XXY. Its so odd how people will equate normal natural to bigotry, from a scientific standpoint, its XY that determines man. Not your delusions of anything else, its just so odd how people are like "we should celebrate what hir decision is." If I thought I was a fish inside my head, people would tell me to get some help. I couldn't go anywhere to get some gills instead of lungs, but even if I did that still don't make me a fish. Psychological Trama or lack of docking sites in the brain for a specific chemical messenger leads to homosexual tendencies. Some people need help instead of the scalpel. Some people encourage the scalpel instead of the help.
Well, in terms of psychology, gender is a cultural and personal interpretation and
sex is the biological assignment. But, really, my problem with this thinking is that it really appears that the commenter doesn't seem to care that much with a person making this choice and instead makes the point that if you feel this way, their is something wrong with you.
I disagree. I do believe we should encourage people to be as comfortable with their bodies and selves as they can, But, if they
cannot be ok with themselves, no amount of therapy is going to change that.
Don't judge them for their want to change; it is their body, their life. Not yours.
So, yeah, the moral of the story? If it doesn't affect
you, you really have no room to talk. Your beliefs, your ideas, and your predispositions (whatever!) are yours. You wouldn't want someone else dissecting and judging your decisions, so why do you feel it is right to jump down others people's throughts?
Oh, and if you want to pull shit out of your ass and say I am being a hypocrite and I am the one judging, I don't care. I already know I'm not going to change people's minds if they don't want to change. I just refuse to not say
something.
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